Sad

This morning I was deeply saddened to learn of Nancy Chan's passing. 

Nancy and I have never met but we interacted on our respective blogs. I still remember how she kindly mailed me Spider Flower seeds. I was so upset that I broke down in tears. Nancy, may you rest in peace and may the Lord embrace you and keep you in His heavenly kingdom. With Nancy the gardens in heaven will be even more beautiful! Amen.

Yesterday evening, I received a call from my brother informing me that dad was experiencing massive bleeding. Just that very morning I visited dad and he appeared lethargic and very low on energy. I stayed just for a short while to let him rest. Next thing I know, he was in distress and needed medical intervention.

Our family had earlier discussed (with the doctors) and agreed to no further treatment for dad. There is no point to prolong his life because he will not recover. He is now bedridden and has no quality of life.

However, seeing that he is still alert and mentally sharp (in other words, still very much alive) my brother and I consented to an intervention to stop the bleeding. We cannot allow our father to bleed to death. I could never live with that guilt if we did not at least give him another chance.

The procedure was successful but our troubles are not over because there are a few other complications to be dealt with. This is pending discussion with the doctors. 

This morning together with mum, we visited dad at the ICU. He was conscious and lucid and was able to carry on a conversation with us. He was weak and his speech was barely audible. We stayed for almost an hour before leaving.

All of us barely slept last night (my brothers and my sister-in-law were at the hospital till late) and what we needed was a good cup of coffee. The most convenient place to go to is Red Kettle at The Starling for easier parking.

Mum's mobility is not as good as it used to be and we try to create easy access for her. So my brother drops us off at the basement entrance and we go up to restaurant while he looks for a spot to park.

My brother and I had the Beef Burger while mum had the Fish and Chips.

My brother loves the Beef Burger and so do I.

Yes, I ate the burger - buns and all hah..hah.. I am taking a temporary respite from an all meat diet. 

Mum said the Fish and Chips was ok. Look at those onions rings. She couldn't finish them all.

After lunch, I accompanied mum down to the basement carpark to wait for my brother to get his car. Then off I went back up to the mall for some walking to clear my head. These are very difficult times - emotionally and mentally (not to mention financially).

At Mr DIY I saw many Christmas trees for sale. Time sure flies by so fast. Deepavali was just over and now Christmas is coming. 

I saw a long queue at IlaoIlao. Every Wednesday there is a discount. If I remember correctly today being the 3rd Wednesday of the month, there is a 30% discount.

So all the el cheapos were queueing up and observed by this el kaypoh. Back in the day, I also queued up for discounted frozen yogurt but not anymore.

Down at the basement this new eatery just opened, Rollti. They sell some sort of wraps and it looks interesting.

Eh, they got Kopi C! I must go and try one of these days.

Next door Sala is still surviving. Don't know if I will every try it.

My naughty Girl is still around to cheer me up.

She is still mommy's number one sayang.

Well, I hope dad stays stable for now. I know this is just the calm before the storm. May my family and I find strength to go through this very trying time.